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I’ve been getting lots of mailage about how to attract a member of the opposite sex into your life, so Sassy ones, your wish is my command but first, let’s get a few things clear about this manifesting malarky…

• The law of attraction works on an energetic level, energy is always attracted to other energy vibrating on the same frequency; like attracts like, positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative.

• Your most frequent thoughts and the feelings that are attached to them will at some point manifest in physical reality: You are continually co-creating your own reality through your thoughts and the feelings attached to them.

• The universe delivers what you ask for, though not always in the package or time frame you have in mind

• So, basically, if you’re thinking and feeling positive, it automatically follows that you will attract positive manifestations into your life…

Now, I feel like I’m able to talk about manifesting a fabulous Mr Wonderful with a li’l bit of authority, because I actually did it, and while we’re not together right now, he was definitely my Mr Wonderful for the eight years we were together, and y’know, I wasn’t clear at 21 – when I wrote the list – that I wanted a forever love, so I didn’t put that energy out there, which is why ultimately, we’re not together now, but believe me, it absolutely, positively works!

I heart lists, and think everything can be solved by writing one, so begin by making a Mr/Mrs Wonderful list filled with all the fabulous qualities you’d like him to have – eg:
- sense of humour
- confidence
- able to communicate their emotions

When you’ve finished the list, cross out Mr/Mrs Wonderful and put your name at the top, because before you can attract a partner with those fabulous qualities, you need to make sure you’ve got them too.

Now, break down any barriers you have about letting this this dude or dude-ess into your world by finishing the following statements as honestly as you possibly can:

- All men/women are…
- When it comes to love, I always…
- I tend to meet people who…
- A good relationship is…
- If you show your feelings, you…
- If I meet my most compatible partner, I’m afraid that…
- To have someone love me for ever makes me feel…
- Love is…

The answers to these questions will help you get a real understanding of where you’re at, and where you need to turn up the positivity in order to attract what you’re looking for.

For example, if you’ve written, “When it comes to love, I always pick the wrong person,” change your answer to, “when it comes to love, I used to pick the wrong person, but now I’m ready to find my love equal.”

Your re-written statements will now become your daily affirmations. Repeat them to yourself until you can say them with total confidence. That way you’ll be ridding yourself of old unhelpful vibrations and creating a fresh new space in your life for love…

More love stuff coming soon, because love isn’t just for V-day, it’s for life! In the meantime, if you’d like to make your life sweeter, come treat yourself to a Sassy Session – you won’t regret it!